I really. Really. Really hate being the last to know things. Or to be brought into the loop halfway through and then be told “oh you don’t need to know the background.” Seriously. If you’re going to bother to bring me in, BRING ME IN. I’m either in or out. If you want me IN, I want to be in, but that means I’m IN. Not half way, I want to know what you know. And if you don’t bother telling me, leave me alone!